This technique is a modification of the technique of Eva Morozovskaya and is recommended for working with family relationships in individual work and work with the couple.
Objective: analysis of the situation, the formation of a new view on the problem situation, the search for solutions.
When working with a couple, each partner chooses his cards one by one and talk about them. In this case, the resource technology increases with the ability of each partner to speak their feelings, status, to Express their needs, hear their partner and have their voice heard.
I Suggest to consider the technique works with MAC for example, a reduced case of the client.
Example client is published with the consent, in abbreviated form, the metric is changed.
"a Woman of 50 years. Is in a relationship (tank not officially registered), with a man 6 years. Accommodation period of crisis in relations"
we used the author's deck MAC «past the Well - spring of the future”.
we Offer the customer to select:
- IN 1 map, which is associated with your relationship. To talk about the map.
“Oh, it's me! I feel right now. I, as if begging for his attention, asking as begging. And yet, this beggar is sitting so quietly and kneeling. He has no confidence in the future. So I quietly sit and wait, looking at him in the expectation that something will change. He finally calls me to get married, I will have confidence that we're together, that we have real family…”
- OT-what is actually happening in the relationship?
“…many colorful gift boxes. But, the impression that they are empty. Here hands, someone, tie a bow on the package is my hands. I have these boxes Packed. Here our relationship from the outside, look perfect. All who know us, think we are the perfect couple. Many don't even know that we are not officially husband and wife. And I found it very disturbing…And “people” I try to look happy…”
- OT – How I feel in a relationship?
“Like a buffoon, i.e. a clown, but a little sad. I, too, always try to look cheerful and happy, but inside, sadness. I often have to say that my eyes are sad, like him. Husband just doesn't notice. I think he generally doesn't notice me. And this picture for me caustic of some sort, heavy. Overcame her condition and gets how I feel when I think about us…”
- OT – As the partner feels in the relationship?
“He is coming by himself, does what he wants. Sees the goal and goes. I even said that sometimes he had thought he could live alone, and women suffer with him. He was married twice. But in our relationship, he probably feels lonely going…”
- OT-What hinders the development of relations?
“cornucopia… I have thoughts arose about what each of us already has its own rich life experience, their stereotypes, the strategy of behavior, their expectations from each other. They are just so “fall” of each, in abundance …”
- OT-What helps the relationship?
“Wow! …get Rid of that old experience, from resentment on men and women from unrealistic expectations that we sent to each other. A new relationship, cleansed of the past is necessary, there is nothing old garbage to carry to the new house. Make it hard …”
- OT-What should happen to the relationship has improved ( Which may help to improve the relationship)?
“the…the queue is not love… all standing, waiting, in the back of the head to each other breathe… Foremost, it is about the fact that you need to wait? To be patient?.. No, this is about something else! Here, one looks in the back and no one else sees. If someone makes a step to the side opens another kind. Before me, just him, his interests, his position, nothing else I see. You only live ones expectations. If you take a step to one side, or at least twirl the head, you can see many interesting things. Maybe then, become interesting and myself, and he'll be interesting again. After all, in the beginning, he was so well cared…”
"I need to deal with them. Plans I have a lot. What I wanted to do is to sign up for dancing. Want to learn to dance. To the beautician need to go, for several years was not a massage you want..."
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