Тайная Опора и Связь: Дезориентированный Тип Привязанности

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the Fourth type of emotional attachment – disoriented attachment. Consider also separately for children and adults.

These children show inconsistent behaviour, then they are drawn to the for adults, I'm afraid, rebelling. Typically, this style of behavior is related to serious psychological trauma. Often formed in the families where the child is exposed to physical violence. Their behavioral responses are contradictory and change frequently. After the return of the mother of the children or “frozen” in one position or “escape” from trying to approach the mother. This type of attachment is also called “disorganized undirected" (abnormal).

Adult people with a disoriented by feelings of attachment may take a while to make relations, but achieving — here just stop and break. It is unstable and unpredictable relationships, which bring suffering to all the surrounding people. Instability in relationships is also present in address relatives and colleagues at work. Unfortunately, such people do not reach the office of a psychologist/therapist, and if income, rarely come on the second or third meeting. Often a psychologist come the people who composed them in a relationship or are their relatives.

in addition to the 4 types, there is also a “symbiotic” type of attachment. In the experiment to determine the type of attachment, such children do not let the mother. Adult characterized by “merge” with a partner like: “We with Tamara go in pair" (for example, by the pronounced codependency). Full separation thus becomes virtually impossible. Additionally allocate smeshannyi anxious-avoidant type of attachment, which simultaneously combines the features of ambivalence in attitude and avoidance of emotional intimacy.

Thus, we considered the following 4 types of attachment in children and adults: reliable (safe), anxious (ambivalent) avoidant (detached) and disoriented (undirected disorganized or pathological). Indent the subtypes such as symbiotic and smeshannyi anxious-avoidant.

question of the day: Fit the description of this type of attachment to you or your friends?

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