from time to Time, everyone experiences periods of transition, when he feels and/or knows what to live, as before, it does not want and cannot, but in another way – does not know how, or knows, but feels a whole set of anxiety, based on fear of loss of anything: respect, wealth, meaningful relationships, etc. This stage is often called the crisis, and many clients ask for psychological help in this state. In addition, psychological work often emerges the theme of transition, of choice, of loss, even if the original request was supposedly not about that.
Man needs a kind of initiation – a new experience that will allow him to learn to live differently: more efficiently, fully, happily, go on a fundamentally new level of development in those areas that he “sink” or to return to normal life after a serious loss.
In such cases, the effective tanatoterapiya – a method that using the maximum possible relaxation of the client's body is achieved by using a touch, allows him to meet with you. Not only with their pain, fear, grief, distrust yourself, the world and people, but also a real, as he was before the injury. When I think about tanatoterapiya session is born metaphor
At the bottom of the sea lies a chest, a while the owner didn't open it, did not consider the content, never thought to keep, what to give, what to alter but still reviled, and that is decayed and no longer useful. Must have lost the master key from the chest. And then one day a man comes along, finds the key, opens the trunk, pulls out all the contents and shows the owner. And the deeper you Wade, the more surprised the owner: there, he not only heavy stones, broken glass and old rags, but also precious stones, and rare books, and embroidered outfits.
Chest – the human psyche, the soul, the unconscious. A psychologist on tanatoterapiya sessions creates the conditions for the client to let go of their tensions and fears and to find the resources to stay injury and transition to a new stage of development that it definitely there, just not visible in ordinary life.
the Man as if watching herself from the outside and see that the process can happen without his conscious control, and stress. The energy that he used to spend on deterrence, hypercontrol, continuous analysis of the situation and prediction of risks, now released. There is an opportunity to notice, to appreciate, to grow and to develop their healthy, the resource part. Through the body gets a new experience of relaxation, the transfer of control and therefore confidence. This experience will stay with him forever and will be the Foundation on which gradually will be built a happy life.
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