Such really therapists normal or "inner crazy" therapist.
there Are in the therapy of hilarious cases where the client, for example, sees the therapist my crazy mother, or someone else no less outstanding. And aggressively promotes is its vision. Here the therapist had a hard time. To recognize some right of the customer in terms of what the therapist is presented so that the client sees crazy mother. Make your inner madman who, whether we like it or not, sitting in each of us. To do somehow with the fact that after all the therapist – not the mother of the client and may not be as crazy as his mother (to support the transfer of or to deal with the transfer).
If the client that something feels about the therapist and tells him about it, the reaction of the therapist, directly or indirectly, can broadcast to the client that it guesses the essence of his projection. In fact, the therapist was able to survive what was found by the client, but to bring into therapy could not or did not want (that is, in session I as a therapist can worry about that my head is spinning from what is happening, but to deny or not to voice this). Then the therapist does with a client about what was done to him, his "crazy mother": does not confirm the VALIDITY of his experiences. That is, MAKE the CUSTOMER MAD.
Say "I see you're angry" is not the same as confirm that Yes, the client is angry because the therapist was flying thoughts or seems to be inadequate. For some reason, the therapist may visit about the confusion from the introduction to the session the points of discussion of its contribution to the process, their mistakes or their lack of understanding.
There is nothing more painful for a client than to hear the simple – "it's your projection" or "this is your personal nonsense".
This can be a very important point when he will be able to receive feedback from the therapist, what he feels and thinks, not just his imagination. Sometimes the most amazing builds customer can find something that creates the fabric of reality.
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