/one of the posts in megablog Instagram.
Esteem.
what's it About?
Personally, I am very close description of Kant, who said that respect could not be those who are not able to respect others.
After all, the ability to value yourself as a person without the sense of its exclusivity (because then it's about arrogance), implies the understanding that other people have their own value. Each.
Let's take the example:
You are standing in line and someone is trying to get ahead of You. Your reaction? /I propose to describe in the comments your feelings and actions in such situations, such a workout can be great to jazz it up./ The first three methods that often can be found in these situations:
1. The one in front who got, say nothing, feeling acute injustice, irritation, resentment and even some feelings, but humbly swallow them. Because for him to Express his feelings - it's about danger. He doesn't believe he can stand his position, and so other a priori stronger.
These individuals usually very often faced with neglect and rudeness from others. These guys are very easy to calculate the second type👇🏻
2. The feeling that I was not asked if I was an empty place inside himself a sense of powerlessness is very quickly replaced by anger and there's words to go is not necessary. People are not shy to use the "flattering" epithets to the address of the offender.
“it is Important that nobody noticed my weakness” - that internal pain such children.
the 3rd type will pretend that nothing has noticed, but not to offend, but just quietly out loud will inform “intruder” that have seen everything and will not allow himself to offend. Sound very different, but regardless of the response of the offender (even the coarsest) will not conflict quarrel. You can even make friends)
And for me, as I think for You the most tempting example is the number 3. And he's not about exposure, boastfulness intellectual or even about that.
It is about the fact that man is capable of actions and behavior to see the other person not to hang the label from the first second.
How does he do it? He knows that every individual is an entire universe. That each has value, as in the. And for me -it's about self-esteem.
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