And how often do you take offense?? And all you touchy people? If “Yes”, then how do you live with this offense??
so, RESENTMENT is your way of reaction to a particular situation. Resentment arises when one–it is not in line with our expectations, it is an unconscious manipulative way to hold on to his innocence. It's a way of passive aggression - offended , and you're good, and the one who is hurt bad, he is to blame, i.e., who first offended, that's right))
Resentment, it's not a Mature feeling, baby. This condition is inherent to children's age, where it came from, and then accompanies us through life. This is a very destructive feeling, it is depressing, does not live happily. And if it is old grievances, they bring the man back again and again in this state, the scroll in the head, lining up long monologues-dialogues. People can't let go, to forget, to forgive. This is not healing wounds, which are themselves combed and they bleed. The idea of self-righteousness cares and nurtures our offense down inside and thus killing himself, beating himself in full. Resenting, I'm being so self-pity, such is the sado-masochistic love for yourself…
Offense –is the easiest way to deal with any issues, situations… and effective. Offended as a child, and when the wait before you begin to dance…No need to take responsibility to act like an adult to negotiate, clarify, and solve…too many secondary benefits from this method!!(cried, offended –acts on men, offended parents may not call to punish so and so) Is a way to gain, and nothing for it “to receive” But!!it causes serious damage and destruction to our body, our biology: touchy people suffering headaches, migraine, sore throat, thyroid issue, and now say that cancer is psychosomatic too, and accumulated, chronic resentment is the basis for disease.
But few touchy understands that offense is a voluntary choice you. And you have the option not to be offended!! As you know, adults, smart people are not offended, and draw conclusions)) Ask yourself when you want to be offended: Why I choose to be offended? Analyze, remove the situation from the field of the unconscious on the consciousness level, and evaluate and choose to be offended or not!! You cannot hold onto friends!!
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