the answer to the question “How to bring back that loving feeling?” the interests of all.
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the Generic answer is “how to replicate the exhilaration of the ride, ice cream or flower?» If the kid liked it and he clapped his hands, and now it bothered him. What to do?? How to regain enthusiasm? - NO.
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Love is a biologically-mediated mechanism. It works not once in my life (as experience shows), but when we are just starting to create relationships with a NEW partner.
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the Narrowing of consciousness in the romantic side of the unidentified object is reinforced by the strong positive emotions during the approach and strongly negative in case of prolonged absence contact.
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People experiencing love, is usually “not myself". To be in this state constantly is not only unhealthy, but also extremely effective in relation to other areas of life.
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Well, maybe not love, but at least to feel the pulse of the heart, a little butterflies in the stomach and the elementary excitation?? How??
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Very simple and very difficult simultaneously. In a nutshell, the most important thing is - NOVELTY.
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If long, then in the system theory there are three basic pillars on which rests the marital subsystem (relations between people to meet emotional and sexual needs).
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🅰1. joint activities
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🅱2. the joint experience of the emotional experience
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🆎3. a shared picture of the future (and past too, of course)
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From this we can give the following advice, not only wishing “refresh” relationships, but also to all those who are generally interested in continuing the relationship.
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🌟it is Important to remember that the law of entropy does not sleep and everything, we are not making a conscious effort, slowly but surely breaks (try not to clean the house at least two weeks?). 🌟
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so, four steps to enhancing LIFE in relationships:
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⛳1. Make sure that you and your partner have joint activities - what you do together (run a business or walk with the kids on weekends). Try to make more or diversify activities, is to learn something new together!
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🧘♀2. Ask yourself - what else of what is happening in my life that I can share with a partner? What new information do I get? Than I surprise myself? What may surprise partner?
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🤪3. How often do we experience joint emotions? When both of us right? Or when we're angry? What I like from this? What could be improved / updated? Are we talking to each other and share their emotions? Do I convey emotions that I'm experiencing partner?
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🌅4. How I imagine the future? Two weeks? What are your plans for the summer? For a year? Five to ten years? For old age? - make sure that your future is your partner. Ask yourself the question - do you in pictures your future partner?
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All ❤
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