I Often hear from clients that they still love their partner but are no longer in love with him. This is sometimes referred to as the reason the desire to finish overall a good relationship. These clients will always make this statement with some desperation and with a sense of accomplishment, “if it's gone, it's gone”.
This is quite understandable, as there is a common belief that first is exciting, passionate honeymoon and it's time for love, and then remains dreary "loving" partnership. But it is a fact or myth? Is the loss of "love" inevitable, or we can prolong this state?
Well, this is a huge topic, and reasoning about it can occupy more space than a comment in a blog. But in fact the answer is Yes, you can cultivate this feeling. the Key word here is cultivate. It doesn't happen by itself.
Everything good in life happens for a reason, everything good lasts without attention and focus on it. You will not remain healthy, if not focus on health, you will not develop a good career or business without the constant desire to do so. However, for some reason, when it comes to love and sex, we think that this should somehow remain ‘on the tall” without requiring any of our efforts. Thus, we take each other for granted and, unsurprisingly, drifting in the direction of «live as roommates”.
Yes, you need to recognize that you will never keep openaudio the dizzying completely new relationship. But I'm not talking about this feeling. I'm talking about the sense of perception in each other like lovers.
- the First side is that the teammates in the game of life: you can raise children, pay the mortgage, time to take out the trash, to consider all the logistics of life.
- the Second side is that friends : you enjoy each other's company, share interests and doing something interesting together.
- the third party lovers lovers.
It is this third party so often gets the attention that she needs. Instead of caring for the garden of intimacy and proximity, it's allowed to wither and die.
I want to do here is very important. I'm not just talking about the fact that you have sex. One that doesn't make you truly love and lovers. You can have sex without love, and countless couples have boring sex, often accompanied by a sense of duty. This is very far from what I say.
how I like to describe the feeling of true lovers, preserving the feeling of love is strong, is that you fill your love with sexual energy. By this I do not mean “passion”. I mean the energy that rises from your pelvis into your heart that is vital, alive that has the flavor and feel the shaking. When you're filled with a warm feeling of love that you feel for your partner, this vital energy, you create a unique frequency between you.
With that knowledge you maintain feelings. It is your attitude to the partner, who is different from anyone else in your life. This is manifested in how you see your partner the way you two look at each other like you greet each other, how you touch each other, how you treat each other how you feel about each other, and how you jointly put their relationship above all else.
It's not easy! It's not "just happens". It requires intention and deliberate focus. The good news is that those things that you have to do to keep these feelings to each other, all of them are pleasant, attractive and, incidentally, contribute to the rejuvenation. The challenge is to understand that you need to take this method, and then actively apply it.
Remember, however, that both of you, and easier to keep focus when you support each other. Then over time it becomes more natural and effortless, and the feeling of love goes on and on.
Cultivate your garden of love, take care of him and stay in love for a long, long time!
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