"Help to understand our relationship!", "Help, what should I do? He doesn't want to get married and go does not!", "her Husband left her for another, and now wants to return. How can that be?", "I'm confused in relationship with MCH, please help me!", "It requires me to the wedding , and I'm not ready, confused!" "I want a baby, but it you don't understand, what's wrong? Help to understand! ", etc. with these and other questions often come to me men and women in marriage and build your relationship.
In fact, the problems which come to my clients and accessing the Internet is much more and you name it. And why to list, because everyone has their own grief. And if a person is to get help and is willing to take it, along with a psychologist, he finds a way out of the situation. The client goes his way, and the psychologist next. After all, this is not the work of the psychologist and the client.
the Psychologist does not give advice, it helps the client to find the answer. Your answer is correct and useful to him. The advice of others as a medicine one will help, another hurt. Because we are all different, everyone has their own level of mindfulness, its mechanisms of protection, its volume of resources, their own power of intention and motivation. And as in the saying "What Russian well, the German death!". And here.
Yes, the psychologist knows how to properly and effectively, quickly, and 100% and can give instruction to action. But! It will help if one will assume 100% responsibility for this Council, for its results in your life, its consequences. If you use a ready-made Board. And people often aren't willing to do actually. Someone is afraid, someone else will (whether or not, and whether ready), someone gets a good secondary benefit from this situation, dividends in the form of care (paid by resorts, holidays abroad, her wishes and whims) , proximity (he listens to all her complaints on the injustice of the mother or the boss at work, an unscrupulous friend, etc.), sexual satisfaction (either what it is, and the sex is good), material gains (house, car, work itself, to live in abundance for his account, etc.), status (but not a divorcee, whojust in certain social circles - the wife of the Deputy, the Director of the company, famous musician, all married, and I worse), etc.
In my work I often use metaphor and images. Because, when a person is in life deadlock, in his opinion, in particular in the field of relationships or is faced with a choice, people can not see, afraid to see, to look at reality, and sometimes that includes the resistance - "don't want to see because it is terrible". Metaphor and the images help him to see himself, to come to this understanding not through the level of consciousness, using the subconscious. And here again we can detect, and he can do it, the installation (personal, family, clan), parent, message, fears, benefits, etc.
This tool makes it easier to circumvent the protection that puts an unconscious client in the process. After all, he tells his story about yourself that in a conventional job for a long time yet "hid" - "denied access to information for level of consciousness ". Speaking kinesiology language "to circumvent the system the MTRS (the total area of integration)."
Then, all that appeared like a treasure chest, easier and faster to adjust in the therapeutic process using other techniques.
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