Верное средство от безответной любви

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Sometimes you meet a person, and once you understand – yours. But he is ignoring you. Or had feelings, but not now.

Think about it constantly, browsing social networks. And it gives some perverse pleasure. On the one hand, to revel in dreams and ethereal hopes for a bright future together. On the other – head realize that anything that is not, and you care about him(on). In this case, is it love?



everyone has their own understanding of love. For me it is body chemistry, mutual respect and the desire to be together. I like the phrase “love – want to touch”. When you love, you want to be close, to be included in the experience of the other, genuinely interested in him and his life. At the same time respect the boundaries of another and their right to personal space. To love someone who loves you. This is normal when a person does not love those who are indifferent to him or even hates him.

But back to unrequited love. It may be different. Sometimes a person loves another from afar. Saw a suitable partner, came up with his perfect image, build it in accordance with their views, and quietly admires, devoting himself to the service of another.

Someone actively seeking love, taking some action, but all in vain, the object of affection does not reciprocate in every way and makes it clear that they are not on the way. Moreover, the one you love may be acting aggressive, abusive, etc. But it doesn't stop lover, and only further whet it.

And I want to think about the object of affection, dream and dream about him, and at the same time do not want to. Images rise before my eyes, memories, imagined scenes… In – a struggle – to forget or to achieve?



If we want to do something, we do it with joy. But if we put conditions or that we should do something fun in this case is less, and sometimes have to adjust and force. Psychologists recommend that if a person needs something to do and can not do, it is necessary to restate this as “I want". Such a sauce, it becomes easier to perform their duties, because it is “my conscious choice”.

If you look in this key for one-sided love, the person thinks about the object of affection because it was his choice, he wants to do this. But what happens if he pereformuliruem it in «I»? What happens if a person is to FORCE yourself to think about something else? “I have to think about this man every day for 2 hours”, for example. Would you like that?

the Sequence of actions is as follows:

  1. Determine how much time a day you need to think about the object of your love – half hour, hour, two, or more.
  2. Scroll for that particular time, for example, from 20.00 to 22.00. And all thoughts about the desired partner, which come at a different time during the day, redirect your time on it, saying to himself "I'll think about it from 20.00 to 22.00”. Thus, in the morning and afternoon you will not be distracted and worry, and in the allotted time in the evening will relish to think about the object of his affection.
    However, a young man who could not forget his girlfriend and thought about her “constantly” (with the words) often told me that 2 hours a day – very much.
  3. Every day at the appointed time, think about his love, remember, dream, suffer, etc. Any other business at this time, you can'T have!
  4. Do it during the week, monitor your reactions and experiences. I would like to continue to think and dream about the person? If you do not want at this time to do something else?
  5. after a few days thinking time can be shortened, and then, if desired, and even to cancel the ritual. What happened to your unrequited love? How do you feel?

Here is a simple technique, but very effective if you have the patience to bring the process to the end.

all relationships have a beginning and an end. People need to learn to let go. All joy and mutual love!



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